How Al-Anon Works

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In Al-Anon, members do not give direction or advice to other members. instead, they share their personal experiences and stories.

How can I find a meeting?

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If someone else's drinking troubles you, attending Al-Anon and Alateen Family Group meetings can help.

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If you are interested in learning more about Al-Anon & Alateen, please feel free to browse our website. There is a lot of helpful information and contact numbers to help guide you.

To find a meeting, please use the 
Meetings Tab at the top of this page.
Use the legend information on the Meetings page to determine which meeting would best suit your needs. Alternatively, you can call us at:
 1-888-8AL-ANON (1-888-825-2666)

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CT Al-Anon's Literature Distribution Center (LDC) is open Tuesdays from 9:30 am - 3:00 pm. Masks required. We also accept orders by phone, email, and USPS mail. Curbside pick-ups are available by appointment. Please click here for further information. 

Check out all you need to know for Connecticut's very own LDC/Office (scroll down to the bottom of the page after clicking the link) 


 

 

 

FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS ABOUT AL-ANON AND ALATEEN
 
   
WHAT IS AL-ANON AND ALATEEN?
  AL-ANON (and ALATEEN for younger members) is a worldwide organization that offers a program of help and mutual support for families and friends of someone with a drinking problem whether or not the person with a drinking problem seeks help or even recognizes the existence of a drinking problem. Participants in AL-ANON and ALATEEN give and receive comfort and understanding through a mutual exchange of experience, strength and hope, and learn how the principles of the AL-ANON program can be applied to their own lives. This process of sharing amongst people with similar problems and applying AL-ANON principles binds individuals and groups together in a bond that is protected by a policy of anonymity and confidentiality.  
IS AL-ANON OR ALATEEN RIGHT FOR ME?
 

AL-ANON Family Group meetings welcome anyone who believes that their life has been affected by the drinking habits of someone in either the past or the present.

ALATEEN meetings are AL-ANON meetings that welcome teens and young adults who believe that their lives have been affected by the drinking habits of someone in either the past or the present.
 
20 questions (PDF) designed to help you decide whether or not you need AL-ANON/ALATEEN.

20 questions for adults who grew up with an alcoholic. This questionnaire may help you in determining whether alcoholism affected your childhood or present life, and if AL-ANON is for you.

CAN AL-ANON HELP ME TO STOP SOMEONE FROM DRINKING?
 

AL-ANON believes that alcoholism is a disease, and that like many other diseases it is not possible to stop someone from having alcoholism.  But it is possible for us to change our own attitudes towards a drinker, ourselves and other people in our lives.  AL-ANON believes that changing our own attitudes can help to improve our own lives and our family situation, whether someone in our lives is still drinking or not.

We recommend that you read Detachment ; an excerpt from an AL-ANON pamphlet (S-19) describing Detachment as it pertains to the disease of alcoholism and how AL-ANON can be helpful to people seeking a better way of living with this disease.  Other AL-ANON literature is also available to help you.

WHAT DO PEOPLE DO IN AL-ANON AND ALATEEN?
 

The AL-ANON and ALATEEN programs consist primarily of independently operated meetings of people who gather to share their experience, strength and hope with one another, and to learn how to apply the principles of AL-ANON to their own recovery from the effects of someone else's drinking.  AL-ANON meetings may cooperate with one another to produce additional events and services for its participants and for the public, including conferences, literature distribution and public awareness campaigns.  Some AL-ANON participants choose to provide their volunteer services to deliver these and other services.  Except for a very small core of administrative staff to support information distribution and publication at the state and worldwide level, AL-ANON service is completely voluntary and non-professional.

IS AL-ANON AFFILIATED WITH SOME OTHER ORGANIZATION?
 

AL-ANON is not a religious organization or a counseling agency. It is not a treatment center nor is it allied with any other organization offering such services. AL-ANON Family Groups, which includes ALATEEN for teenage members, neither expresses opinions on outside issues nor endorses outside enterprises. No dues or fees are required. Participation is voluntary, requiring only that one's own life has been adversely affected by someone else's drinking problem.

ARE AL-ANON OR ALATEEN MEETINGS RELIGIOUS?
 

Religious belief is not a requirement for AL-ANON or ALATEEN participation or a goal of its programs.  AL-ANON neither endorses nor opposes any religion, sect, institution, cause or other program.  Though not a religious program, many people experience spiritual growth through participating in AL-ANON and ALATEEN, regardless of their personal beliefs. 

WHO SUPPORTS AL-ANON?
 

AL-ANON Family Groups are non-profit entities supported through the voluntary contributions of people who participate in AL-ANON and ALATEEN meetings and events.  AL-ANON receives no funds from other organizations and does not fund any organizations or activities outside of AL-ANON and ALATEEN.  There are no mandatory membership dues or fees for any meeting participants; however, some special events such as conferences may require registration fees from participants to defray expenses.

HOW CAN I LEARN MORE ABOUT  AL-ANON AND ALATEEN?
 

AL-ANON and ALATEEN offer:

-Literature for people to learn about our programs and about the effects of drinking on people close to the drinkers.  

Meetings in many local areas where people can talk to people whose lives have been affected by someone else's drinking.

-Events, some of which are held in public forums for informational purposes.

- Newsletters published by AL-ANON and ALATEEN participants that provide personal insights and updates on local events.

- Information for professionals who help people whose lives have been affected by someone's drinking.

- Web sites, such as this one and the AL-ANON and ALATEEN World Service web site, where information may be obtained online.

- Key contacts that you can reach for more information about AL-ANON and ALATEEN.

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SAMPLE AL-ANON LITERATURE  


- AL-ANON's Twelve Steps, Traditions and Concepts
- Detachment: AL-ANON's view
- Just for Today: AL-ANON words to live by

 
THE SERENITY PRAYER

God, grant me the serenity

To accept the things I cannot change,

Courage to change the things I can,

And wisdom to know the difference.

AL-ANON Family Groups offer a wide range of literature covering topics relating to people affected by someone else's drinking.  You will find many of these publications available at AL-ANON meetings in Connecticut and elsewhere, including publications designed especially for AL-ANON beginners.  Many of these publications are made available for free at meetings through the donations of meeting participants.  Some, especially hard-cover books, are available at reasonable prices.  You can order AL-ANON literature through a local meeting, or order it directly from

 

Connecticut 's Literature Distribution Center

 

 CT AFG. Inc. 

277 Main Street

Hartford, CT 06106

(860)244-0022 

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Literature can be ordered on the Literature Distribution Center page.

 

Key AL-ANON literature topics and materials include:

  • How to use and understand The AL-ANON Family Groups program

  • Learning about the effects of alcohol on the alcoholic and other people

  • How to recover from the effects of someone else's drinking

  • Marriage and alcoholism

  • How to improve our lives through emotional and spiritual growth (non-religious materials)

  • How teenagers can improve their lives when affected by someone else's drinking

  • How people attending AL-ANON meetings can help to improve AL-ANON

Please note that AL-ANON uses only literature approved by the AL-ANON Family Groups World Service Conference at AL-ANON meetings and functions.  This Conference Approved Literature (CAL) contains readings written by and selected by participants in the AL-ANON program, which are designed to follow the principles of AL-ANON.  These principles include the concept of neutrality and respect for the personal beliefs of individuals in the AL-ANON program.

 

Lifeline has been discontinued. 

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Connecticut’s Very Own

Literature Distribution Center
277 Main St. 
Hartford, CT. 06106
phone: (860) 244-0022
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The LDC is open on Tuesdays from 9:30 am - 3:00 pm. Masks required.
We also accept orders by phone, email or USPS mail. Curbside pick-up available by appointment.


LDC normal hours of operation information

  

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"Opening Our Hearts - Transforming Our Losses"
(B-29 is $16)
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Ordering Information

The World Service Office encourages members and groups to support their local LDC, rather than purchasing literature directly from the World Service Office.

 

Order Forms

      
English Order Form (XLS 10-20-24)  Spanish Order Form (XLS 10-20-24)
   
     
To download order forms: click on the link 

 

Order Payment Methods

The LDC currently accepts cash, checks, money orders, PayPal, credit cards and money transfers.
NOTE: There is a 3% processing fee for credit card and PayPal payments.
When we have added additional payment methods they will appear here.
Please do not mail cash when ordering literature.

To pay other than mailed check/money order: e-mail, mail, call or fax your orders in.
We invoice you by e-mail and then you can pay thru the e-mailed invoice or PayPal.

 

Need LDC Volunteers

We are always looking for volunteers for events as well as in the office.
Anyone interested in volunteering please contact the LDC.

Parking and getting into the CT AFG LDC:
We are located in the South Congregational Church, 277 Main St., Hartford.  We have a parking lot behind
our building which is located on John Street. Parking is in the driveway on the right side of the building.
There is a sign on the building that says CT Al-Anon Literature Distribution Center, LDC
Ring the buzzer. We will answer and let you in. Come up to second floor and office is first door on left.

If you need to access us by the Handicap entrance, please park in back of building on John St., and
go to the back of the Church entrance.  At the Right side of the door there is a buzzer that goes to the Church office.
Ring that buzzer letting them know you are here for LDC and need to use the elevator to our office on the second floor.